One Billion Good Men Aren't Taken

My Mr. Perfect for Me
Taking me To Disney World

There are literally at least a billion eligible men out there, each just waiting for the right woman to let him sweep her off her feet.  I think if you really want to find the right guy you have to... Go Look for Them.  Obviously Mr. Perfect for You isn't in your kitchen.  He's not sitting on your couch watching TV.  But beyond that, let me ask you.  Have you met a billion men?  Of course not.  And yet you're willing to give up?  There's your first mistake.  Maybe you can actually travel around the world and meet some of the men the world has to offer.  Of course if you were that adventurous, frankly I think you wouldn't need my advice on meeting someone to begin with.  There are some milder ways to meet people.  Take a class, join a gym, do some volunteer work.  Go out and enjoy yourself or do something that will double to help you meet someone and improve yourself.  That's called multitasking.  And don't turn your nose up at hanging out with new female friends.  All of those women have contacts that are, you guess it... men.  That's called networking.  Look at you, all learning and stuff.  And one final way you might be able to meet someone is through a good online dating service.  I recommend OK Cupid... not only is it a great service, it's free.  Don't frustrate yourself if a guy isn't interested.  He's not Mr. Perfect for You.   And besides you have a lot a men to go through, a billion remember?  So you don't really have time to cry over ones that don't work out.  That reminds me of my final bit of advice, one I have broken time and time again in the past, to my own dismay.  Do not, I repeat Do not, revisit old flames.   Did I mention there are over a billion men out there?  Please don't waste your time going back to the leftovers of a meal you didn't really care for to begin with.  By the way, everything in the post can also be applied to women if you're a guy out there looking.  Just saying.